I couldn’t have said it better myself. So Iet Vampyre Fangs say it for me. 🙂
What Is Love? 
(And no, it’s not that ‘A Night at the Roxbury’ song by Haddaway)
We live under a massive cultural delusion about the nature of real love.
Propagated by mainstream media, from the time you’re born you’re inundated with the belief that love is a feeling and that when you find “the one” you’ll sense it in your gut and be overcome by an undeniable sense of knowing. When the feeling and corresponding knowing fade (for the knowing is intimately linked to the feeling) and the work of learning about real love begins, most people take the diminished feeling as a sign that they’re in the wrong relationship and walk away. And then they start over again, only to find that the now-familiar knowing and feeling fade again… and again… and again.
If love isn’t a feeling, what is it?
Love is action. Love is tolerance…
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